"hurr durr ageplay isn't pedo"
Unlike rape pedophilia literally just means being attracted to prepubescents. You can try to explain it away, but why would a grown man get off and specifically request someone "with a little age of 6-9" and etc? NYART but I don't see how ageplay of that kind can be done for any other reason. Maybe an edgelord trying to be edgy as possible, but that doesn't change the person pretending it's real.
This shit is just special snowflake bdsm and some of the things associated with it are fairly innocent, but if you get off on literally rping sex with diapers and baby objects I have some news for you. Even being obsessed with 1,000yo dragons is less pedo-y.
Inb4 "but tits" pedos being exclusively attracted to children is a bit of meme. It happens but they're not mutally exclusive by a long shot.