This was a crisis I went through a few years ago. I was actually considering suicide. I was so worried about never being able to find a woman that would accept me the way I was, on top of other life stressors at the time.
But I eventually got some help and got the confidence to go to munches, and eventually I did meet a woman that not only accepted my perversion, but enjoyed it along with me. Unfortunately I had to move away but it was still the best time of my life.
Just get out into the fetish community and you can find someone. It is possible.