If you shave off your body hair, you're then not hairy. Believe what you want, but I have never been called a ugly ogre when posting nudes in femboy/twink threads :^)
And don't compare male and female body hair, it feels completely different. It also looks much better than male hair. I have zero problems with girls that don't shave their arms or legs completely smooth, even if it's a darker color and more noticeable. It still feels nice. While "traps" that hide their leg hair with stockings are fucking disgusting.