A failed normie is someone who through no fault of there own is ostracized and exiled from normie life. A failed normie made attempts to be social but for some other reason they failed to become a normie.
A robot is someone who has never been social and has never attempted to be social, this is why a robot can be good looking such as the guy in the OP, because they simply don't try to be social. A robot is the guy who opted out of social events his entire life to either shit post of play vidya. The guy who decided not to go to prom even tho he probably could have gotten someone to go with him
A failed normie cannot be good looking otherwise they would flourish in their normie en-devours whereas a robot can range from a 0/10 monster to a 10/10 model.