Focus on your career, and study history.
Learn your place. Learn your place as in understand what your life is going to be, study to become useful by 27, get a job. If you find someone who you deem worthy enough to spread your legs for (read: be blindfolded with and walk into a cabin in the woods with), and you will meet many don't worry about that, test him for a week or two before you start dating. Marry, and get a child before 30, the earlier the better, given that it doesnt ruin your study/job prospects).
Be human, and do not dignify people that will not matter to you. You are female, a pretty smile is all it takes for people to like you, worry about your life and career.
Hedonism is bad, and severly unattractive in girls. Girls that are hedonists will never find love. Same goes for men, but hedonism is not being pushed for men as much as it is with women in society. ('Do what you like, be what you want, cock-bouquet for anyone with a smartphone, you go girl!!')
Be a strong human being.
thousands of years ago, less than 40 generations of humans ago, we were struggling to stay alive and only the honorable and clever of us remain (Japan/GB cultures compared to Arabic countries/Slav countries' cultures). Respect that. Soldiers and your ancestors didnt give their lives for a future of pic related. You don't have to be a submissive little pigeon who cooks all her life in her home, but dear lord accept right now that there is a very enjoyable compromise.
Be strong. I believe in you.>inb4 faggot