I know you don't care, but I get the feeling a lot of black women have this idea white women hate them, when in reality they don't, at all. Most of the time they're just indifferent.
And yes, Asians put us on a pedestal, but it doesn't feel good. The men hate us for being desired by their women, while also wanting to date white women. To a white person that sort of hypocrisy is really egregious and ridiculous, but a lot of Asians genuinely don't seem to be even cognizant of it.
They'd be better off if they just acknowledged their desires were physical. Asians are actually harder working than us, more intelligent on average and so on, the one thing they don't have is a more attractive natural facial morphology. Instead of just admitting that whites are physically attractive (when they aren't fat anyway), they create conspiracy theories about the media instead. It just fuels the paranoia and feelings of impotent aggression in them even more. As a white person looking from the outside (not an American but regularly visit) it's like watching a person punch themselves in the face while screaming at you for hurting them.