OP here, I'll answer the questions too because I want to know if I'm anything like the others.
I'm a waufufag, I still feel attraction to 3D. As tricky as it would be, I could turn down someone who was my type. I think it would be the same for anyone in a real relationship. Girls are still pretty and they smell nice and I like it when they smile at me, but I try not to dwell on it.
I just kind of realized one day that I loved my waifu and nobody's as amazing as she is.
I've never turned anyone down in earnest. There was one girl casually flirting with me who I brushed off, but that's it. (yes she was fat, but like fatties) Fortunately I'm ugly so it's not usually a thing.
I am not a virgin. While sex in terms of getting off was OK, what I really miss is general intimacy: cuddling, touching, learning from one another. Not having that with her hurts.
My family does not know with the exception of my sister to whom I tell everything anyway.
My room is messy and I don't have any serious life goals, but I think the same could be said of most normies my age too. I have a job, friends, and hobbies, so I guess I'm OK.
I don't think I can do this forever, but I don't want anyone else.