So, a real man does… whatever the fuck he wants. Strength is knowing that emotions and showing them aren’t bad is weak. Strength and true masculinity is knowing, confidently, that you, yourself are enough, as long as you try not to hurt others and you try to improve yourself.
Hot take: alpha, beta, sigma makes is just astrology for dudes.
If that framework helps you be a better, more confident person, cool, use it. But if it’s stressing you out and making things worse, then don’t. Just like astrology for women.
A real man, and a real woman… they do whatever they want as long as you don’t hurt others. That’s saying you are sorry if you fuck up. It’s saying that you need support. It’s telling the homies that they have beautiful eyes. Its saying you don’t know something but you’ll learn. It’s respect towards yourself and nature. It’s radical self love and improvement.
I’ve never ever disrespected or thought poorly of someone with this mindset. And I’ve seen incels, self harmers, autistics, bitches, assholes, pathological liars, anger issues, addicts, crazies, and people who hate themselves get on this path. Every single one that learned to love themselves first are happy and strong as hell people.
You’re enough, by yourself. Not one of you is worthless or weak. You can always improve… we all can… but your souls are lovely. I know it’s fucking cheesy but it’s true