It's not nice at all being seen as dangerous and threatening by default. It really fucking sucks, I hope at least some of you can understand that.
As for fucking off, I'm gonna fuck off. Man haters win again. The lolita community really, really isn't a place for a man, especially a soft one to be.
I'd like to say that I also understand why some of you feel this way. It's not illogical to be weary of men. Women do get raped, men get hurt by men too just in other ways.
Stay safe nonnies.
I'm sure in Japan the situation is different so maybe one day when I move there I can finally have fun.
Before you ask why I didn't find a local community, is because there is none in hundreds of kilometers from me. And online is just not fun. Back to hangin out with the stinky metalheads irl.
I'll keep the EGA ouji stuff and the Silent Moon coord for now thogh