OP, you aren't going to like what I have to tell you, but all I offer is the truth.
You hate women, because you are weak. You lack the necessary skills and talents, to charm them to your way of thinking.
Were you the kind of person who spent a large percentage of your waking-hours dedicating yourself to a singular purpose; a hobby, a career or perhaps a healthy mix of both, you would find that most, if not all of your hatred and focus would be redirected into that activity.
Instead, your hatred is directed at women because you are lazy and unmotivated.
Even men who, for all intents and purposes, are considered "ugly" by society's standards, manage to attract good-looking, available, personable women because they know ... not think, not feel, not believe, but KNOW ... that they have acquired enough skills through sheer hard work, for their confidence to be justified.
You would know this also, if you did a single day's worth of hard work in your life.