Dig into yourself a bit (or, y'know, a LOT) & gain a deeper understanding of why you have the fetishes you do. Get real comfy with not lying to yourself. Start sorting through the shit that is fetish, kink, temporary curiosity vs. what you'll probably carry throughout your life. Etc.
Did I mention, get real comfy with not lying to yourself? Because, get real comfy with not lying to yourself.
Hang out in places where other people share numerous of your core instincts & nature. Be ready to accept fetishes in other people that you haven't considered, or are not comfy with. BUT, that the people who have them are part of your "tribe." It's a bit of a Venn Diagram thing. You will not share a perfect circle with everyone/anyone else. That's cool. One intersection will be, however, the part where you can be accepting of the nature of other people where they are different from you and your interests, find a common ground where you are into their thing and they are into theirs. Be able to support them in what makes them happy (as opposed to being mentally ill & into destructive shit to themselves & everyone around them), make sure the "tribe" you hang with is accepting and supportive of you for who & what you are.
Don't be jealous of other folks enjoying their thing(s) with people who are not you. Build a relationship where you are not threatened by that. Remember this goes both ways.
You don't have a right to find someone else. You don't deserve anyone else. But, if you are not an asshole & just take people for who they are, be open with folks so they know what they are getting into, you might get lucky.
Repress yourself & sell a bill of false goods to someone else? You should just kill yourself & save everyone around you the pain of dealing with your asshole nature. False people who lie to themselves and to the people around them deserve to have misery inflicted back on them one thousand times over what they inflict on other people.