>>3359199Well then don't lead, but make sure you explicitly lay out your boundaries and desires so Red is more comfortable leading
Bun, with how little you've given him sexually, I almost wager Red will cream himself if you can manage to LOOK at his cock for a bit. Trust me, he's going to love whatever you do for him, because it's coming from you genuinely wanting to pleasure him. It won't matter if you fuck up; he'll love the intent.
That being said, some experience wouldn't hurt. Watch videos and read forums. Porn is obviously very misleading but a little desensitization couldn't hurt. Definitely take the penetration thing into consideration. Especially considering your size difference I'd say ALWAYS work up to penetration with lots of foreplay. Your first time clearly wasn't experienced to do that. I might even consider working yourself up to prepare yourself for him. Get a small dildo, a bunny dildo, a slightly larger one, and then a fox dildo? You're probably pretty tight so it might be good to physically prep yourself as well as the mental prep.
And yes, you should both enjoy it. If something pains you then don't do it. If penetration is just "meh" for you then at least let him have fun rutting. Lots of women can't reach orgasm without clitoral stimulation, so try combining that with penetration. Or if you want to forgo penetration altogether, just take turns giving oral/paw sex. Us foxes have some pretty skilled, long tongues~ There's no way you won't enjoy that. Promise.
You only need to be as open with us as you want, Bun. But if you look past the trolls and Smellwethers, hopefully we have helpful advice.
