>>258514323>Can i fix her?>I'll try...pic rel: me watching your relationship from afar.
If you can't accept someone exactly as they are when you get with them, then do not get with them. you don't really want a relationship with them you want a realtionship with some other ideal and you hope to form them into it, but fundamentally people do not change, they can with a LOT of work but they have to be committed to it themselves, and it's very hard to make someone genuinely want to change.
t. had a very long relationship with bi polar girl i thought i could fix (because i fixed myself, but i WANTED to change)