>>5807813That's the thing I've noticed the only real sure fie way is to higher a professional dom. Most girls are really not into even attempting being dominate in any way in the relationship from my experiences. Then fetish dating websites are filled with cancer like "findoms" that are just gold diggers that admit to being gold diggers.
All these fetishes I have are absolutely dependent on if I have a loving girlfriend / SO to do them with. Bondage, feminization, all of it. Its just worthless unless I have someone to do it with.
I'll probably just have to give up on most if not all of my non vanilla fetishes.