>>5715838if having an 8"x1.75" dildo shoved in just the right spot doesn't do anything while my limbs are out of commission, i doubt a tiny aneros is going to work.
the method i use starts with getting myself almost to an orgasm, then work the dildo in slowly. the switch between stimulation types acts like edging. i keep an even, steady pace of thrusting it in hard/quickly, and pulling out softly/slowly. always keep it slow but steady, and focus on the sensation of being filled and stretched. mental stimulation helps, so some kind of light submission fantasy paired with it is nice. for example, i also stick to a rule that i'm not allowed to cum without permission (or for 15 minutes, since no one is there to give it most of the time) and i hit this plateau right before an orgasm, i can ride that for quite awhile and drive myself absolutely crazy. once i have "permission" i fuck myself into orgasming so hard i lose all my senses. i have orgasmed hard enough to stay in that "greyed-out" mode for longer than i thought i had. i think it felt like two minutes but was actually closer to ten minutes. it is exhausting though, so i usually don't bother. really glad i have it down to a science.
