>>11251405>On my end, am I supposed to have an enema or a good BM beforehand?Generally speaking, for casual levels of anal play, and based on how shitty your ass is
If you aren't doing any serious depth play, doing a fairly gentle enema via a kit is pretty easy and reliable at keeping shit out of your sex. It's pretty quick and easy, just get a bit of distilled water or saline up there before you like, take a shower or something, and as needed step out to empty yourself. Probably won't take more than 15 minutes. It will help clear anything just sitting in your colon out, and flush out any flecks just hanging out in there. Bear in mind, if you do distilled water, you could end up feeling a bit weak or light-headed if you're already prone to it, 'cuz that leeches nutrients and salts out of you. Take an extra multivitamin or something, have a snack, you'll be fine, you aren't dying
Tap water can work, but especially if you have heavy metals or anything weird in your water, can introduce contaminants to your body that your digestive tract normally filters out, but can't when you run it in reverse. Use your discretion. Once or twice probably won't matter in the long run.
Nothing is ever quite foolproof, shit happens, but this helps.
Eating more fiber, or taking a fiber supplement is also a good way to keep you ass cleaner, and is healthy anyways, so you should be doing it even if you don't plan on taking anything up the ass, but is a general force multiplier for keeping your ass clean. Psyllium Husk is the go-to.
Finally, while you're cleaning out, you should take the time to warm up a bit yourself. Get your finger in there, if you have some smaller toys, gauge up. You'll have to do this either way, unless you're into painal, and unless she's expressed interest in doing so beforehand, it's mostly just extra shit you have to do before you actually do it, and the heady rush of horny could wear off while you're doing it. You're already sticking shit up there, just do it.