>>24710143Hey now, in the first place I didn't choose to have a tulpa, I just asked one day if there already was one in my mind, and I got a solid confirmation, and it all just took off from there. I should note, I was against having the "fake, escapist" happiness that a tulpa seemed to bring, and during the first few days I knew I had one, I was scared I'd end up in a mental hospital soon
Second, I personally know some girlfriend/boyfriend material, but to be honest, for now, I'm not interested in having one. I've had two girlfriends before, and of course I enjoyed, it was far too time-consuming for my liking, and in the end I didn't get that much out of it, so I'm in no hurry to start another long-term relationship
You yourself have been lonely, you tried most of the available stuff and didn't work out...hope you do find what you need/want soon, Anon
As for MY personal experience, an imaginary friend is a great way to not feel lonely even if you're literally isolated from everyone else, a fantastic way yo get to know yourself better and improve yourself, and a way to experience what true, dedicated, everlasting love feels like
>>24710174Yep, a lot of my friends nag me about getting a GF since I'm told I'm handsome and they tell me girls feel sort of attracted to me (fuck if I know why they would, though, I'd be the last one to guess that), but I see them having to cut into the rest of their lives to stay together and have a proper relationship. They no longer participate in barbecues and reunions, they can't spend a weekend fishing out in the middle of nowhere with friends, they have to ask permission for stuff, some of them can't even talk with other girls...I really don't see why they accept cutting so much of the nice stuff in life for a girl, they're always complaining about their girlfriends being so needy, getting upset over silly stuff...
Guess the pussy game is a tough one
