I kind of agree. I like seeing stuff where it's not grimdark. So death and what not. I know it's hard to make "realistic" suits rooted in "realism", so magic knives or techno guns are a way of not questioning...but I can suspend my disbelief in that someone can make a realistic disguise without that.
I enjoy the stories of someone just taking over someone's life for a day, or even a date, so they could fuck the person they've been lusting over, or they could turn into the kind of person their crush always wanted. I even liked disguises for spies and what not that branched off the "spy" stuff and interacted with what they did while they were undercover.
Fuck I just need excuses for people to suit up and pretend to be other people and then have mad hot outwardly-consensual sex. I don't need a dude dressing as a girl and then getting raped every story.