>>41866059look, I am happy for you, and am NOT trying to rain on your parade, but as a guy in year 9 of a relationship, on the verge of marriage, it sounds like she is still pretending everything is okay for you (possibly because of her image issues). Hell you're probably doing it for her sake too, and not realizing it.
Eventually she will let her guard down fully. It will mean more stress and bullshit, but at the same time it means she trusts you that much more.
