>>5860409>>5865376forced to have 2 incomes to cover a very basic home that's not a hellhole in rural parts of the country
the hard choice of if daycare is even worth the price given the low wages and net + of 3$ an hour after its expense
the retardedly high cost to raise a kid
if shit doesn't work out, there goes half my shit regardless of if we both had to work for where we live, depending on state half my shit + monthly income to her for the life she was accustomed to, and depending on the state child support for 18-26 years for a kid she will have near full custody of and will poison toward me.
a school system that seems hell bent on torturing kids instead of teaching them, spying on the family's at home beliefs and pounding shit into their heads the likely is controversial at best for the age of the kid, and even if they do their jobs right, still a system that teaches them demoralizing bullshit.
would have loved to have a kid, have a family, but the risk is far FAR to great.