>>6418310The difference is in the reasoning behind his decision. Imagine this: two girls, both virgins, both 20 years old. One wants to remaina virgin until she finds the man that is 'right' for her and marries him. She chooses to do so because she thinks it is wrong to sleep with a man that she doesn't loves and is not in a long-term relationship with and she thinks having sex with a man before marriage is a sin. She would be considered 'pure', 'morally-conscious' and 'wife-material'.
Now let's look at the other girl. She wants to keep her virginity to sell it off on eBay when she turns 21. She wants to do so because she thinks that loosing her virginity that way is a wiser decision than giving it away for free to someone just because she has feelings for him. She would be seen as 'a slut', 'narcissistic' and the kind of girl no man would want a serious relationship with(unless he's a pimp).
So, as you can imagine, the reason behind some of /a/'s decision to remain a virgin for their qt 3.14 moe waifus says that they are so immersed in an alternative reality that they lose sense of the real world, and they would rather concentrate on a 2D fictional world than live their lives. They would be considered as 'weeaboos', 'losers' and would be told to 'get a life'.
It's the way society works, and neither /cgl/ nor /a/ can control the way the wider society sees nerds who choose to remain virgins because of their hobbies.