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I've only ever been to one Homestuck meetup...well, 3, I went to the three there were at the wizard world comic con in chicago this last weekend, and they were all perfectly fine.
No buckets, no being obnoxious, hell, we even went to an out of the way corner to be out of the way of everyone else, it was actually really nice...granted that was my only experience with it, but it was a damn good one! I met loads of awesome people and even made some new friends.
Was what I saw really the huge of an exception?