>>193702116You should start right now regardless of your age. I got rid of everything I didn't like about myself and cultivated on traits I've found useful/attractive. I didn't pretend to be someone else, I simply enhanced who I was at my core. I applied this logic to everything in my life and this worked well.
For example I hated my curly hair and would get buzzcuts most of life, I realized by growing it up and treating it correctly it could look good and now it's one of my best feature. I threw away my high school clothes, I started to take shopping seriously and now I've got a good style. I used to be confused about some stuff in IT, I've learned them until I mastered them. I used to be invisible the opposite sex and now I receive compliments and can connect with people.
Yes some people have more success than me with less efforts, they look better, they learn faster, they are smarter and stronger physically but the thing is you don't need to mog the entire planet just be comfortable with yourself.