>>81740559No what makes you gay is who you're attracted to.
If you're married to a woman and you stay faithful but secretly you're not attracted to her and you're only attracted to men and you wish she was a man and you fantasize about gay sex every day because you are attracted to men, you're gay even though you only have sex with one particular woman.
If you are a man who is married to a man but you never have sex with him because you are not interested in sex at all with anyone, but you still are romantically in love with that man and you live with him and raise kids with him and kiss him and do all the things couples do except sex, you're gay.
If you're straight but you do gay porn or escorting exclusively for money despite not being attracted to men at all, you're straight.
If you're straight but have sex with men for reasons that do not involve being sexually or romantically attracted to them, you're still straight.
I fall into the last category, therefore I am straight. It's not about the sex acts you perform, but about who you are attracted to.