>>40255849>>40255503Stop treating "she is into ponies" as a short-cut or your immediate goal and start working on your anxiety/depression/general communication skills. Get to the root cause of anxious thoughts instead of fighting them directly, because they are but a manifestations of your deeper emotions and though patterns/beliefs. There might be emotions/beliefs that you accept for granted without thinking but that are actually pure bullshit. Also build acquaintances. Build friendships. You don't get gf by doing some specific gf-getting actions if you are all fucked up that you aren't capable of forming secure attachment-style friendships (or at least not a gf that you would really want to have around). And most importantly, if you have no social skills whatsoever, then it WILL take years. Not a week. Not a mere month. Years of sculpting yourself before you start seeing something you like in the mirror. Give yourself at least 5 years of constant work on your anxieties and social skills.
>>40255943Again, get to the root cause of anxious thoughts instead of fighting them directly, because they are but a manifestations of your deeper emotions and though patterns/beliefs. There might be emotions/beliefs that you accept for granted without thinking but that are actually pure bullshit.
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