>>81727727>the right thing is to be neither of thoseYou'll still get cheated on, backstabbed, etc. There is no room for kindness in this atheistic world if literally everyone you know believes might is right whether physically through violence, psychologically through manipulation, and socially through reputation sabotaging, gossip, and flaunting one's wealth and social status.
>>81727739OP asked how to get out, not how to stay in grey.
If he did, I would simply state that one must remove all hope from ever gaining anything, and instead take it back from normalfaggots with NEETbux, going to the local bank and getting free shit from there and soup kitchens, etc.