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I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years and thereabouts, and all was going pretty well. I met her IRL, but before that I was having no success with the Tinder game. She, herself, never used it ever.
2 weeks ago, she was telling me about some of her friends' horror stories on Tinder, and I laughed with her and added "Tinder's way worse for guys, though". She didn't believe me when I told her most guys get 0 matches, and I wouldn't either. So we decided to play (what seemed at the time) a fun game : set up Tinder profiles of each other and see what happened. And the obvious happened: after one week, I had pretty much no matches except bots. On the other hand, she was bombarded with matches and messages, quite a few of them from pretty attractive guys (or at least, what I judge to be attractive guys, a lot of them probably more than me). She admitted I was right and that it was an "eye opener". We agreed to shut down our profiles.
The problem is, ever since, she's grown slightly more distant and cold, and it's now beginning to be noticeable. Basically less happy to see me, much less in the mood for sex, not as physical or cuddly as before, and more importantly way more monosyllabic in our conversations. etc. I sat her down yesterday to talk about it, and she was evasive. When I asked if the Tinder experiment had anything to do with it, she looked away and just vaguely said "I don't know, maybe".
I feel like I've played myself here. Is this doomed or is there any way I can save it?
TL ; DR: played a Tinder experiment with my girlfriend and now it looks like she's way more distant and cold towards me.
Ok how do I lose 15kg quickly? I feel like a fat piece of sh*t because I gained weight recently thanks to muh depression and I'm 5"4 for 130lbs. I have asthma so working out is difficult but I still want to move my bum. What do /fit/?
pic related is my body,the angle makes it kinda flattering for once but I usually look fat and large.
anyone else here on a plantbased diet? I've been vegan for almost half a year now. haven't noticed anything negative as far as energy levels go. in fact my cardio is much better now and my blood pressure feels lower. of course my diet is pretty clean, I hit at least 200% RDA of all my vitamin/mineral requirements each day (I eat mainly wholefood unprocessed vegetables and legumes, I try to avoid junkfood). protein intake is a bit lower (not by a significant amount, something like 20 grams).
so yeah, if anyone is (or was) on a plantbased diet, share your experience with it, maybe problems you've encountered. since we're on 4chan, I'm glad we can have an honest discussion here, hopefully we can keep this civil without bad-faith arguments and anecdotal evidence of skinny raw-vegan youtubers.