>>57775900Han Chinese enslaved and raped every single nomadic people in their first enocunters with them.
Qin dynasty general Meng Tian enslaved and raped the xiongnu in the ordos loop,before the Xiongnu ever "won" against China.
Western Jin dynasty China enslaved and raped the Southern Xiongnu, Jie, Di and Qiang before they revolted and established their first barbarian dynasties.
Tang dynasty China enslaved and conquered the Gokturks of Mongolia and Central Asia before the Turks revolted and established dynasties.
The Manchus were ruled and raped by the Ming dynasty for 2000 years before revolting
Every single barbarian people gave their own women to Han Chinese.
Xiongnu Qiedihou Chanyu gave his own daughter to Han Chinese general Li Ling and the Yenisei Kyrgyz Are Khagans claimed descent from him.
Xianbei Tuoba family married off over 50% of their princesses to Han Chinese nobles.
Kublai Khan married his own daughter off to Emperor Gong (Zhao Xian)
Manchu Aisin gioro Nurhaci gage his own granddaughters to Ming officers who defected like Li Yongfang , Wu Sangui's son.
>further westAll new steppe barbarians came from further east. The Mongols were east of the Turks and the Tang dynasty raped them too.
The Tang dynasty literally butchered khitan Mongolic men and enslaved the women after defeating the Gokturks in Mongolia.
Everything you said is an inversion of reality.