>>57603160>You really think marriage is all sunshine and picnics? Its a lot of hard work and often full of fights.tahlia you're not even out of the 'honeymoon period'
you don't even live together yet with all the extra stress that comes from that
you don't have all the stress of running a household
there are already clear signs of actual legitimate abuse and manipulation
there is already more dysfunction than anything else
literally everybody except you (and I question whether you are being honest with yourself) can see that this is a godawful idea
breaking up is not divorce, stop pretending it is
you're not married, legally, religiously, or otherwise, by pretending you are you make a mockery of marriage
both of you need to realize this is going to end in nothing but misery, drop this ridiculous farce, work on yourselves and find somebody more compatible