>>65980464It's ok anon, why wouldn't you be scared? You're putting yourself out there for a complete stranger, you're showing them your biggest flaws, sins and insecurities, and being told that you're not enough is devastating. Anyone who tells you that you're a bad person for fearing such pain is wrong. But if you don't put yourself out there you'll be alone, and I would not wish that torment on my worst enemy. You cannot allow yourself to wallow in doubt, sorrow, self pity and hate. As human beings we must struggle, we must suffer, we must fail and we must learn, that is the only way we can improve as people.