>>10839323Awhile back I had a kid from /cgl/ join my cosplay guild. Guy was new to the cosplay scene, and I've been here roughly like a decade and some change. So I told him to flat out just keep it a hobby and not to get so attached to his friend groups as shit is mostly superficial to begin with.
He then proceeds to
>manwhore himself out to the local cosplay groups>purposely goes after psychotic girls>rants to my group about how he's getting #metoo'd>keeps going on rants about how he fucked up despite me and other folks warning him and telling him not to acknowledge the fucking drama.So in cases like that, I'm just like I can't realistically take pity on any dumb mistake that person does because they were given the fucking warning. But the best way to view cosplay is to literally realize that;
>You will see the scene about maybe twice a year at best, most of the time. So there's no point in getting attached unless they actually do shit with you like play video games or have integrated into your friend circle (and not your cosplay circle.)>It's a fucking hobby. By realizing it's a hobby and not a social media cash out, you will begin to view any attempts to get cancelled, or life ruining events in general as retarded attempts made by bored sociopaths that the cosplay scene generates because it's fucking cosplay.Therefor, these dorks won't have power because you're not giving them power. Literally it's just, stop browsing social media, you're fucking fine.
