>>10902271>>10902287Probably genuinely autistic or broken in some way that's not easy to fix anon here. I am very curious about one thing, If you're still here and kind enough to answer.
I have a good grasp on social interactions and non verbal communication nowadays, but some things you cannot read in a book and while I noticed a pattern here years ago, I am still unsure on the exact intent and norms nor any value system I can place it on. I am specifically asking about this part of the conversation you had
>>I joked that I can tag along if she needs an out. Its clear from the latter part of the story, that your intent was always to have sex with this women/some women. But you did not reveal your intentions openly, instead you used phrases that in a normal context of conversation would not concern having sex itself, and if they did, they concerned the surroundings of it. Here specifically, you also offered a form of protection in a nonchalant way, which I understand is attractive.
However, it is obvious that you did not actually deceive anyone with these words and your intentions communicated this way, were completely received and understood by the other party, ie. at this point the other party most likely agreed to casual sex already, note that I am omitting the aspect that a conversation in this form always allows for withdrawal in a socially safe way (so I at least understand this part).
Could you elaborate on what your full intent truly was, what thoughts you had and why you chose to say those specific things you did?
I am genuinely asking. If you did this without much though, maybe you can think about it consciously and then give me an answer? Its very depressing how normal people seem almost magical in their ability to automatically dance this social dance and my brain have to run scenarios all the time to even attempt social interactions. Thanks in advance if you reply.
