>>75872362>You think I haven't tried this multiple times? Back when it wasn't this bad I'd sat with her multiple times and offered support for her. She could have worked in the same office as me and got paid excellent money for what would have been glorified data entry. A 10 year old could have done that job. I opened my laptop and did it in front of her to assure her how easy it was. She refused it. I couldn't make the same offer anymore. You're offering a long term commitment. That is pointless if she has untreated executive dysfunction, it would seem like a nightmare to her. They can't self-motivate, they can't concentrate on most tasks, they can't resist immediate gratification in favor of long term benefits. They can make even doing the dishes or making their bed an insurmountable task in their heads. The moment education got hard and people stopped holding her hand at all moments, she was bound to fail.
What she would need right now is to get a basic routine back in her life. She would need immediate artificial consequences sprinkled all throughout her life (behavioral modification), because her brain is incapable of doing that itself. Any kind of work has to be short term, physical and be negotiated (e.g. do the dishes for $10, if you don't get internet cut off for an hour). Any hard mental tasks she needs help with.
Of course she needs to at least be a little bit open to it, or her situation will not improve. Her parents will need to inform themselves about executive dysfunction and stop being pussies. You seem to be the only person to organize something. If your parents are incapable, find out if the government offers long-term support at home.
The moment she gets medicated, a framework like this will become much easier to setup.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_tpB-B8BXk0>The girl can't even clean herself and breaks everything in sight when she's upset. That's 2 year old behaviour.It's severe ADHD/BPD behavior.
