Life in the west today is a joke for 80% of men. With the welfare state the women are no longer dependent on a male to support him... the result is a monkey-like society. Women, hypergamous in nature (due to their higher sexual value then men), will all flock to the top 20% of men, while the rest of men are screwed over. Not completely of course, you still get to "enjoy" the wrinkly 30+ aged women and single moms who will look for someone to settle down with once they have been through a cock-carousel in their prime. Their sexual value has decreased drastically and they are now forced to settle down with the lesser men if they ever don't want to remain single for the rest of their lives.
Im not here to be pessimistic, quite the opposite. Now that you are enlightened you are in advantage. Unless you are amongst those 20% of men, there are things that can be done to improve your situation.
Looksmax - You need to take action toward reaching the full potential of your looks. Surgery, working out, losing weight, roiding, etc. Getting a haircut and dressing better is not going to cut it even though reddit tells you so. Research more looksmaxing methods on
sluthate.com, probably the best place on the internet for discussion of looks and looksmaxing methods.
Money and status are obviously harder to achieve. Money will attract you golddiggers, status will give you a "halo-effect" to compensate for your looks.
Personality does not matter either, even though reddit tells you so as well. You need to have a dominant behavior and treat women like they are below you. If you are lacking in the looks department this is pointless however.
PUA does not work, it is a scam directed towards basement dwellers. Unless you want to go out and approach hundreds of women for a slim chance of a single lay, at that point you might as well go buy a hooker.